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Advent Supper 2

If Jesus was born today, what sort of world would he find?

There was a very relaxed and sociable atmosphere as 22 people gathered for the second talk in the Advent series – an exploration of Who would be capable of showing empathy.  We listened to a TED talk by the American sociologist, Sam Richards entitled, A Radical Experiment in Empathy – see below. After our meal we read the passage from Luke 16 – The rich man and Lazarus. People were very engaged in the discussion at their tables and the feedback at the end was vigorous and varied about both the talk and the Bible passage.

We all grasped that empathy was the process by which we put ourselves in the shoes of someone else, and saw the world through their eyes. If we were to enter into this process, we would have to ‘suspend judgment’, consciously putting our own views and opinions to one side. Seeing things through the eyes of someone else would enable us to understand in much more depth, why they react and behave in the way they do. It would not necessarily lead us to agree with them, but our new, more profound understanding would make it highly like that our attitude to them would change as would our behaviour. This in turn would lead to greater tolerance and respect for those who appeared to differ from us in many aspects of life.

Next week we will be exploring how changes in the way we communicate challenge how we relate to each other and the opportunities that those challenges bring.   There is still time to sign up – don’t miss out! – you can book your place by clicking here.

Peter Silva


 

ADVENT SUPPER – WEEK  2
2 December 2015

TED Talk – A Radical Experiment in Empathy

Some questions for discussion during our meal:-

  • What struck you about the presentation by Sam Richards?
  • What is the difference between sympathy and empathy?
  • What does having empathy mean for you?
  • Can you think of a time when someone was empathetic towards you? How did it make you feel? Share this with others if you wish.
  • What stops us from ‘stepping into’ someones shoes?
  • What questions does this TED Talk raise for Parliament today as it discusses the use of airstrikes against ISIS in Syria?

Biblical reflection

Luke 16. 19-31  – The Rich Man and Lazarus

‘There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and who feasted sumptuously every day. And at his gate lay a poor man named Lazarus, covered with sores, who longed to satisfy his hunger with what fell from the rich man’s table; even the dogs would come and lick his sores. The poor man died and was carried away by the angels to be with Abraham. The rich man also died and was buried. In Hades, where he was being tormented, he looked up and saw Abraham far away with Lazarus by his side. He called out, “Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue; for I am in agony in these flames.” But Abraham said, “Child, remember that during your lifetime you received your good things, and Lazarus in like manner evil things; but now he is comforted here, and you are in agony. Besides all this, between you and us a great chasm has been fixed, so that those who might want to pass from here to you cannot do so, and no one can cross from there to us.”

He said, “Then, father, I beg you to send him to my father’s house— for I have five brothers—that he may warn them, so that they will not also come into this place of torment.” Abraham replied, “They have Moses and the prophets; they should listen to them.” He said, “No, father Abraham; but if someone goes to them from the dead, they will repent.” He said to him, “If they do not listen to Moses and the prophets, neither will they be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.” ’

Questions to consider

  • What do you think that the message of this parable is?
  • Who is isolated? Lazarus or the rich man? Why?
  • What are the consequences of not having empathy?
  • Whom do we ourselves lack empathy for?. The poor? The rich? People of a certain race or faith or lifestyle? Some family members?  Whom do we want to avoid?
  • Is it possible to have empathy for people who hurt us or mistreat us?What practical things can we do to increase empathy in our lives? In the Church?

CUMBRIA FLOOD APPEAL

The images of the damaged caused by Storm Desmond will have brought back painful memories for many in the Benefice.  Back in 2007 41 homes in Ascott-under-Wychwood and some in Chadlington were flooded .  We know first hand just how devastating that is for those effected and for their communities.

An emergency appeal has been launched for anyone wishing to donate to assist individuals and families whose homes have had significant structural damage or flooding due to recent floods and storms which took place during the 3rd, 4th, 5th and 6th December throughout Cumbria.

Cumbria Community Foundation has committed £50,000 from its own funds to prime the Appeal.

Grants for charitable purposes will be distributed to relieve hardship, which can help with cleaning up, emergency repairs, clothing, food and drink, heating and heating equipment, child care equipment and basic furniture.

The fund is administered by Cumbria Community Foundation, who effectively managed the £3 million Cumbria Flood Recovery Appeal following the floods in 2009.

CCF has a well-established and effective system for application, grant assessment and allocation. CCF is a highly regarded local grant giver with experienced staff and solid systems and processes in place.

The Ascott Village Shop is collecting donations of money to send to those effected in Cumbria.  If you would like to contribute you can do so by calling into the shop or by putting your donation into an envelope marked ‘Cumbria Flood’ and put in on the collection plate at Church.  We will make sure your donation is passed on.

 

A prayer for those affected by flooding

Creator God, we remember at this time all those whose homes and communities have been damaged by flooding in Cumbria.

In the the name of Jesus we give thanks for the courage and dedication of the emergency services who have come to the help and rescue of all in need.

We celebrate the kindness of neighbours in caring for the most vulnerable.

Lastly, we ask in the power of your healing Spirit to rebuild not just the physical communities which are coping with many problems today but also to give us a sense of trust in your goodness through the kindnesses of one another, in Your Holy Name.

Amen

PRAYING FOR THE CLIMATE IN ADVENT

David Soward reflects on the UN Climate Conference being held in Paris

As the Paris climate talks begin, we already know that 2015 has been the warmest on record, with the 5-year-period to 2015 also recording the warmest global average temperatures ever, and with 14 of the warmest years in the last 100 all occurring in the 21st century. No surprise then that everyone – from Pope Francis to Prince Charles, from David Attenborough to David Bowie, and from Bjork to the head of the Royal Opera House – has been lining up to impress upon our world leaders that they must produce a deal which is ‘ambitious’ and ‘inspiring’. (The EU added that it must be ‘robust’ while the US, the world’s second worst producer of CO2, is more worried that it might also be ‘legally binding’. ) Continue reading PRAYING FOR THE CLIMATE IN ADVENT

How are you going to mark Advent?

It’s good to find time and space amidst the busyness to pause and reflect. On this page we are going to add some resources that you might like to use during the course of Advent.  Do come back
regularly as it will be updated weekly.


A CALL FOR CHANGE – Advent week 2

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Download and print off a copy of this excellent resource from ROOTS for Churches here.


 

KEEPING HOPE ALIVE – Advent week 1

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Download and print off a copy of this excellent resource from ROOTS for Churches here.


 

ADVENT LIGHT

If you’re into colouring, here’s an Advent exercise for you. It was devised by the Revd. Ann Le Bass of St Peter and St Paul’s Church, Seal, Kent and is reproduced with permission.

Print out the picture below – there’s a PDF version here if you prefer it here.

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Starting on Dec 1, find candle ray number 1, look up the bible verse – you can do so online bible here, where you can enter the verse. Then decorate that candle ray as you want. You could fill it with patterns, draw a picture, write out the verse, or a word from it…it’s up to you.

On Christmas Eve colour the candle and the flame.

Why not post a picture on social media at the end, or as you go along, to share your Advent journey? If you are into Facebook post it on our Facebook page

 

Ascott Trees

Back in May,  Ascott Church launched a ‘Sponsor a Tree’ campaign to help care for and maintain the wonderful avenue of 25 Lime trees which is one of the iconic features of our beautiful and historic
village.  These trees are now in urgent need of attention, and the Parochial Church Council has taken professional advice and is proposing to go ahead with the work in the near future.

The method chosen is to arrange for the pollarding of the entire crown of the trees, which is consistent with the work that has been done on previous occasions  (because as you will realise, this is a job that it is necessary to do every few years in order to preserve the trees for the benefit of future generations).

For a while after the work, there will be a noticeable visual impact and we want to make sure that all Ascott residents know about this in advance.

We are therefore inviting all residents of the village to let us have your views and to is complete a short  online survey here before Monday 14th December 2015. Your feedback is important to us.

This is part of the consultation that we started in May and we are hopeful that the work will be completed before the end of February 2016.

Advent Supper 1

If Jesus was born today, what sort of world would he find?

Advent began early this year in The Chase Benefice with me leading the first of our four Advent Suppers on Wednesday night (25 November).  Twenty-three of us gathered in Chadlington Hall for an excellent meal – it may be a penitential season, but hospitality and fellowship are never out of place! – and around it some stimulating talk on the topic of compassion.

Things got off to a good start with the viewing of an engaging online TED talk by Rabbi Jackie Tabick – ‘The Balancing Act of Compassion’ – this, together with some related suggestions for discussion, got us all talking over our meal.  [You can watch this TED talk and look at the questions we discussed at the end of this post]. Having cleared the dishes, we looked at the story of ‘The Good Samaritan’ and what it has to say about compassion.   On our table (there were four) we thought about what is meant by ‘our neighbours’, the difficulties of acting compassionately now compared to the difficulties in Jesus’ time, and what limits and checks there can be on our responses.  I’d have liked to eavesdrop on the conversations at other tables as well… but at least a short time of feedback at the end meant we had a flavour of what everyone else had been talking about, and out of it came the general agreement that compassion by itself is not enough.  Responding to someone else’s suffering or difficulty has to result in some kind of action on our part.

The next three Wednesday evenings will follow the same pattern of TED talk, meal and discussion, around the topics of empathy, community and welcome.  Next Wednesday Mark will lead with ‘A radical experiment in empathy’.  It will pick up from his sermon following the attacks in Paris.  It promises to be a really challenging and stimulating evening.   There is still time to sign up – don’t miss out! – you can book your place by clicking here.

Marian Needham


 

ADVENT SUPPER – WEEK  1
25 November 2015

TED Talk – The Balancing Act of Compassion

 

Some questions for discussion during our meal:-

  • What does having compassion mean for you?
  • Are you able to describe and share a situation when someone showed compassion to you?
  • What boundaries might having compassion lead us to cross?
  • What things stop us from acting on our compassion?

Biblical reflection

Luke 10. 25-37 – The ‘Good Samaritan’

Just then a lawyer stood up to test Jesus. ‘Teacher,’ he said, ‘what must I do to inherit eternal life?’ He said to him, ‘What is written in the law? What do you read there?’ He answered, ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbour as yourself.’ And he said to him, ‘You have given the right answer; do this, and you will live.’

But wanting to justify himself, he asked Jesus, ‘And who is my neighbour?’ Jesus replied, ‘A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell into the hands of robbers, who stripped him, beat him, and went away, leaving him half dead. Now by chance a priest was going down that road; and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side.So likewise a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan while travelling came near him; and when he saw him, he was moved with pity. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, having poured oil and wine on them. Then he put him on his own animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii, gave them to the innkeeper, and said, “Take care of him; and when I come back, I will repay you whatever more you spend.” Which of these three, do you think, was a neighbour to the man who fell into the hands of the robbers?’ He said, ‘The one who showed him mercy.’ Jesus said to him, ‘Go and do likewise.’

Questions to consider

  • What was Jesus trying to tell us by having a Samaritan as the hero of the story?
  • What was Jesus saying by having the priest and the Levi as the ones who failed to show compassion?
  • Who are our neighbours today?
  • What things can make it difficult for us to love our neighbours?
  • If Jesus were to be born today, would he find our compassion and love for others any different from 2,000 years ago?
  • Jesus said: ‘Go and do likewise’.  In this story, Jesus challenges our prejudices and encourages us to enlarge our idea of who our neighbour is, and to love in the generous, unconditional way that we have been loved by God regardless of the personal cost or inconvenience. How possible is that today?  How can we be the ‘hands of God’ today?

Advent Suppers 2015

Advent is traditionally regarded as a time of preparation. It presents us with the chance to pause in the increasingly commercialised run up to Christmas and to think about the true message of the Incarnation – of Jesus being born among us.

If the Incarnation happened today, what sort of world would Jesus be born into?  Would we make room for him and what sort of welcome would he get?

These are some of the questions that we will be addressing in our Advent Suppers this year.

The format will be slightly different than in previous years.  We will start at 7 pm [prompt start please!] with a short 18 minute video presentation. Then, over a delicious supper with a glass of wine, we will discuss some questions raised by the presentation. After the meal, there will be some reflection on a Biblical passage and a few further questions to open out the discussion.  The evening will draw to a close with a suggested action that people might want to want to take away and time for a plenary to share reactions.  We will be away by 9 pm.

The Suppers will be held in Chadlington Memorial Hall from 7 pm to 9 pm on the following Wednesday evenings:

November 25th
December 2nd, 9th and 16th

For catering purposes it is important that you book a place now – please do so by clicking here or leaving a message on 01608 676572.

Details of each of the talks will be posted each week – if you subscribe to this blog you will be sent an email to tell you when they are added.

We shall remember…

At our Remembrance Day service in Spelsbury Church today, we dedicated a ceramic poppy from the 2014 Blood Swept Lands and Seas of Red commemoration installation at the Tower of London.  It was given to Caroline Williams by her son William who served in the First Gulf War and it was dedicated to the memory of Caroline’s grandfather, Major David Cuthbert, who was lost in action at the Battle of the Somme.

During the service it was placed on the Altar in front of 63 candles, representing the 63 men and boys from the village of Spelsbury who fought in the Great War – many of whom didn’t return.

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Help for Refugees

Many people across the Benefice have been asking what can we do to help refugees fleeing Syria and other countries. Here are some organisations, both local and national, that you might consider supporting:

West Oxfordshire District Council is providing information for local residents who wish to help the plight of Syrian refugees. There is more information on their website – http://www.westoxon.gov.uk/refugees They note that there are some local organisations who are collecting supplies for refugees and that would welcome material and financial donations.

Crying out for Calais is a Witney-based project that is taking basic essentials to refugees in Calais. To find out how you can support their work, see their website – http://www.crowdfunder.co.uk/crying-out-for-Calais

Emmaus Oxford are also taking basic essentials to refugees in Calais. To find out how you can support their work, see their website – http://www.emmaus.org.uk

Asylum Welcome are another Oxford charity but focuses its work with refugees and asylum seekers already in Oxfordshire. To find out how you can support their work, see their website – http://www.asylum-welcome.org

If you wish to make a financial donation, these Christian charities are getting aid to those most at need:

Foundation for Relief and Reconciliation in the Middle East FRRME is a small UK-based charity, set up to support the work of Canon Andrew White – until November 2014 the vicar of Bagdad, is providing food, shelter and medicine for hundreds of Iraqi refugee families who have fled ISIS and are now in Jordan. Some have walked across the desert to find safety, with little more than the clothes on their backs. You can read more about FRRMEs work and donate here.

Christian Aid  is working with churches and other agencies in supporting humanitarian efforts taking place in Europe and the Middle East. Their partners can provide essential humanitarian supplies such as food, fuel for cooking, hygiene and sanitation kits, water containers and cash assistance, as well as psychological support for those who are suffering as a result of the conflict. To donate click here.

Thank you to all those who gave donations at Marian’s Licensing service – we raised £535 plus Gift aid.

Welcome Marian!

A new chapter in the life of the Chase Benefice opened today with the Licensing of the Revd. Marian Needham as our new Associate Priest.  St. Nicholas Church, Chadlington was full as members of the Benefice gathered with clergy and laity from the Deanery and some of Marian’s family and friends as she began her ministry amongst us.

The service was conducted by the Rt. Revd. Colin Fletcher, Bishop of Dorchester and Acting Bishop of Oxford, in the presence of Mr. Rod Walker, DL, representing the Lord-Lieutenant of Oxfordshire.  The Benefice Choir, directed by Rosy Nixon and accompanied by Jill Greer on organ and piano, helped to lead the worship with beautiful music and set the tone of the service with a prayerful Introit by Hildegard of Bingen, the Twelfth Century Abbess, whose Feast Day we remembered.

After Marian was Licensed, she led the congregation with the
following prayers:

Let us pray for each other, and for the world

Today we have celebrated the life of Abbess Hildegard, a woman renowned, and sought out in her own time, for her vision, spiritual gifts, and wisdom.As we begin a new stage of our own journeys in faith together, let’s remember those that have inspired us with their vision, encouraged us, and been our travel companions along the way.

We give thanks for the Christian ministry and witness in our lives that has brought us together at this time and place.  In a moment’s silence, let us remember the churches, and communities where we have worshipped in the past, and those special people whose faith and ministry inspired our growth as Christians.  (Pause)

Loving God, we thank you for the guidance of those who have accepted our questioning, helped us to learn from our reflections, and walked with us on our spiritual journey.  We pray for the gifts of wisdom and vision that we in turn may play our part in building up the body of Christ which is your Church.

Lord, in your mercy: Hear our Prayer

God of peace, we pray for those who undertake dangerous journeys in search of safety and peace because of war in their home countries.  We pray for innocent victims used by others in the pursuit of their own interests.  May there be a deep compassion and generosity of response within the wider community, and desire on the part of world leaders to seek lasting solutions.  May hearts that have been darkened by violence discover a different light and a new vision.

Lord, in your mercy: Hear our Prayer

We ask for your healing for all those who suffer in body, mind, or spirit, and again in a few moments of quiet we remember any individuals particularly on our hearts and minds tonight.  (Pause)

Lord, in your mercy: Hear our Prayer

Generous God, we look to the future and ask for your blessing on our Benefice and on our community.  Through your Holy Spirit inspire each of us in our individual ministries, encourage us to grow stronger in faith together, and to be a blessing to each other and to all our neighbours in Christ.

These things we ask in the name of your Son and our Redeemer, Jesus Christ.   Amen

It was a truly wonderful occasion and the celebration continued after the service with some delicious canapés and a bottle or two of wine!

You can find a copy of the service booklet here.

Thank you to all those who made it such a special evening. Welcome to the Chase Benefice Marian and Chris!

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